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Tuesday, February 4, 2020

One Raw Moment in the Life of a Missionary


I stopped and stared. 

Jabez’s desk was empty. 

My other students milled restlessly about the room, wondering aloud where their fellow student was. “I don’t know,” I admitted. The evening before, the principal had mentioned that Jabez might transfer to another school, but I’d never dreamed it would happen so soon. I sat down and tried to quiet my students, but for once they paid no attention. “Where is he?” “He’s not leaving, is he?” “Surely he won’t leave without saying goodbye!” I just shook my head helplessly and studied the empty desk. All of his notebooks had vanished, and his school-issued textbooks were stacked neatly on his chair. I wondered momentarily where the vocabulary book was that I borrowed from him every day during class time—there weren’t enough books for me to have a copy, so I counted on him to let me use his while I quizzed them on their review words. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I noted that his desk was also bare of the unique name card I had drawn for him, and knowing that he loved artistic things, I hoped he had taken it with him and would use it to remember me by. I sank down into the chair at my desk and looked down. There was the vocabulary book, placed so neatly on the middle of the desk. I opened the front cover and saw his full name printed inside, along with the same smiley faces he always drew on his homework for me. Moisture threatened in my eyes when I realized that in the midst of the flurry of packing and cleaning up his desk, he had remembered that my vocabulary class was the next class of the day and had left his book just where I would find it. 

I looked up to find one of my students crying quietly in the corner, and my heart began to break. How was it that a quiet boy like Jabez could have impacted all of us like this? How could a boy who smiles much but talks little have written so much on our hearts? My students were subdued; not once did I find it necessary to quiet them. 

After class, my husband met me at the door of the classroom and told me that Jabez was leaving in five minutes, and that anyone who wanted to see him off was to come to the dock. We went. I was not embarrassed to be seen crying, but I looked around at the others anyway—the whole campus had shown up to see him off, and I couldn’t help but noticed that my face was not the only one wet with tears. He hugged everyone—which was no small feat considering how many people had come to say goodbye—and after my turn had come and gone, I stood there silently, with the arm of the high school dorm mom around me. She spoke only Portuguese, and I only English, so we said nothing—but I had seen her crying the same way several months before when she had said a permanent goodbye to one several of “her boys” so I knew she understood how I felt about “my boy.” Words cannot express something like this anyway, and since we had none, we said none. 

My husband and I then followed Jabez to the end of the dock, where a speedboat was waiting for him and his parents. As he climbed in, the sudden realization hit me that I had no pictures of him. I toyed with the idea of taking one right then, but decided against it. I didn’t want my only picture to be one of him leaving. So I stood there silently again, this time with Danny’s arm around me, and watched the boat speed off over the Amazon’s choppy gray waters until they rounded a corner and the jungle hid them from view.

Saturday, January 6, 2018

Emerging from the Dry Season

In Africa there are two seasons: the rainy season and the dry season.

In my life there are the same two seasons: the rainy and the dry.

It seems like there's never really an "in between" season. It's either dry and dusty and hot and filthy, or it's rainy and beautiful and wet and green.

I think every child of God experiences both of these seasons, for our Creator knows full well that both sun and rain are necessary for spiritual growth.

In 2016 I entered a dry season that was as unexpected as it was unwelcome. During that time, everything seemed empty and broken. Physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally - every part of me felt utterly feeble and worn out. My weaknesses were in full view - so where was God's perfecting power? Why was I stumbling so badly?

God had taken me down from the heights of my pride and selfishness and laziness, and had graciously ushered me into a low place, a valley, that was to be my home for the next 1-1/2 years.

And there, in that dry place, I learned.
I learned to say, "Thy will be done."
I learned to pray, "Not to us, O LORD, not to us, but to Your name give glory."
I learned to cry out, "May those who fear You see me and be glad, because I wait for Your word."
I learned that God wounds so that He might heal.
I learned that His mercies are new every morning.
I learned that "when my anxious thoughts multiply within me, [His] consolations delight my soul."
I learned that even though my heart and my flesh fail all too often, "God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.
I learned that when my heart was heavy, I could find relief in His presence.
I learned that in quietness and trust was my strength.

I learned to open my arms and embrace the dryness and grittiness of the season. I even learned to thank God for the valley. And gradually I got comfortable in that place and began to put down some roots there, thinking it'd be awhile before I left. But it wasn't. Because God had another lesson to teach me: the dry season doesn't last forever.

Given enough time, human beings can get used to just about anything - including the dry season. So when I began to sense that God was leading me out of the valley, I balked. Why? Because even the rainy season has its dangers. In Africa, the rainy season brings new growth and beauty to the land - but it also marks the rise of malaria, because the mosquitoes that carry the disease thrive in the dampness and heat. In the rainy season that was approaching me, the danger lay in my own apathy, my tendency to be content with a lukewarm relationship with Jesus.

The dry season had ensured that I was always uncomfortable enough to need Him. "It is not those who are healthy who need a physician," Jesus said, "but those who are sick." In the dry season, I had an acute awareness of my own sickness and sinfulness. I was afraid that in the rainy season, I might trick myself into thinking that I was healthy and had no need for the Savior who had given up so much for me.

My heart said, It's better to stay where it's familiar, rather than venture out into new territory. Jesus said, "Deny yourself, take up your cross daily, and follow Me."

God used the words of Katie Davis Majors (who wrote about her own experiences with the dry/rainy seasons) to encourage my stubborn heart to rejoice in the new season:
I feel a nervousness, maybe even a fear, in stepping into a season like the one I sense He is promising me. I have grown used to the dry season. I have known Jesus here in this long, hard place, and rainy season now seems foreign. But I can feel Him assuring me that He will be known here too . . . . It was time to come out of the hidden place and sing and embrace all that He was giving, the blessing He was pouring out. And He knew that my voice might come out crackly and tired at first, out of practice. But He would hear beauty in my song of praise in this new and glorious season. 
(Katie Davis Majors, Daring to Hope.)
So here I am, already a few steps into a new year, a new season.
What is my purpose in this new place of quiet rest?
I wasn't sure until a few days ago, when suddenly I realized that the dry season can be likened to a battle while the rainy season can be compared to the time of peace that follows. For a moment - just a moment! - I have stepped out of the heat of the battle and have been pulled behind the lines so that I can rest and train and learn all over again how to handle the weapons God has given me. And then back into the heat of the battle I will go.

If you are in the midst of a dry season, take courage! The night is long, but the dawn is coming. Rejoice, though you are weary, for God is your strength and your portion.

And if you have entered the rainy season, use your time wisely! Draw near to God and allow Him to refresh you. The battle is waiting, and you must be ready.

Friday, November 10, 2017

Choosing the Storm

{Written earlier this summer}

Right now, even as I type, a storm is raging around me. The wind is howling, the rain is pelting against the windows, and branches are flying through the air. The house shudders. Thunder rumbles. The slim, three-year-old oak tree that is planted by our circle drive thrashes its leafy head in the wind. The field next to us looks white as rain whirls across it like snow. Far, far away, the lights on a cell tower blink feebly through the storm. The sound of the rain is a constant roar in my ears.

If I had no shelter against this terrifying rage, I would be scared to death.

If I didn’t know the great Commander of the storm, I would be trembling just like the baby oak tree outside.

“Are the guys terrified-ed?” my little brother asks. “The guys on the boat? Are they terrified-ed?” Mom has just been telling him the story of the disciples on the Sea of Galilee, and he wonders if this storm was anything like the storm the disciples experienced while sailing on a boat with Jesus.

Suddenly I realize that the fear that welled up in the disciples on that dark, stormy night was very understandable—except that they, too, knew the great Commander of the storm. They, too, had a shelter. The Man who lay sleeping in the boat—He was their shelter. He was the Commander of the storm. They cried out to Him and He came to their aid. First He rebuked them—“Why are you fearful, O you of little faith?”—and then He rebuked the storm. The storm obeyed Him and the disciples responded in absolute awe.

Storms aren’t all bad, are they? They give us the chance to see God’s power. They give us a chance to stand in awe of Him. They rock our worlds until we have nowhere to go except straight into the arms of God Himself.

Humbled, shaken, bowed down, wind-tossed, helpless—in this world, we will be all of those things. And in a world where God is sovereign—in a world where God commands the storm—those are all good things to be. All who have chosen to take up their cross will experience suffering and anguish. They will go through storms and trials that are specifically and graciously designated by God as a means to bring glory to Him.

Think of the verses in Matthew 8 that come directly before the account of the terrifying storm at sea. Jesus warns a wanna-be disciple that even though “foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests…the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head” (Matthew 8:20). Foxes and birds are earthly creatures, so of course they have holes and nests on this earth for their resting places. But the earth is not Jesus’ dwelling place—and the same is true for all of His followers. The earth is not my dwelling place. And if you are a Jesus-follower, then the earth is not your dwelling place either. It is a temporary abiding place where He sanctifies us through storms and trials so that one day we will be like Him.

Now think again of the wanna-be disciple in Matthew 8. Where would his next steps have taken him if he would have followed Jesus?

A storm.
An uncomfortable boat.
The foamy, violent Sea of Galilee.

Foxes have holes. Birds have nests. And the Son of Man laid His head on a storm-tossed boat.

What a lesson for those of us who want to follow Jesus! Are you willing to lay your head down in the midst of the storm and rest beside your Savior until He chooses to rebuke the waves? Are you willing to embark on a journey that is sure to lead you into the midst of the raging seas? Are you willing to suffer? Am I?

Let me tell you that it is in the midst of that crazy, terrifying boat ride that you will see Jesus as He is: powerful, sovereign, faithful, perfect, and beautiful. A provider and a commander. A healer and a leader. A friend.

It costs much to become a follower of Jesus.

But when Jesus Himself is our reward, how could we choose any other way?

So I choose the cross. I choose the storm. I choose Jesus.

Thursday, June 29, 2017

When the Fog Rolls In

(Written Friday, June 23, 2017)

I am sitting here on the porch of a cabin in Colorado, drinking in the scenery (and my coffee, of course) and thinking of how God often uses His creation to teach His children important truths about Him.

Today I am noticing the fog that is creeping down the mountains. It is weaving softly, almost imperceptibly, through hills and valleys, shrouding pine trees and cabins in its soft white blanket. It is only the fog that I can see now - no longer can my eyes rest on the splendor of the mountains...

And yet, even though I can't see the mountains, I am still convinced that they are exactly where they were before the fog descended.

Why?

Because I have seen them when there was no fog.
Because I was scrambling all over them yesterday on a hike with my family.
Because my body can still feel the effects of the climbing I did.

Do I have even the slightest doubt that the mountains are there?

No. Even though at this very moment the fog is thickening and deepening, I have no doubts whatsoever.

What about God? When storms roll in and I can't see my way clearly anymore, do I doubt God's existence? If fog is all I can see, doesn't that mean that He isn't there anymore?

No.

With Moses, the man of God, I can confidently say, "Lord, You have been our dwelling place in all generations. Before the mountains were born or You gave birth to the earth and the world, even from everlasting to everlasting, You are God" (Psalm 90:1-2, emphasis mine.)

Amen and amen!

God is my dwelling place, even when the fog rolls in and I can't see clearly. He is the rock upon which I stand. I rest beneath the shelter of His wings - even when those wings are shrouded by fog and invisible to my fallible human eye. I have experienced Him in a way that cannot be refuted by logic or argument or even emotion. So even when the events of my life become foggy and confusing, I have the past to dwell on. The blessings from of old (found in both my life and the lives of the Old/New Testament saints) become my reference point.

If I am so sure that the mountains exist beyond the fog, how can I think anything different about God, who created the mountains?! Even before the earth was made by Him, He was God! He is everlasting! He is unchanging - the same yesterday, today, and forever! If He was there before the fog rolled in, we can be sure that He will still be there when the mists of confusion finally rise.

The more I avail myself upon Him and upon His promise of changelessness, the more confident of His continuous presence I will be.

Monday, March 20, 2017

Food for Thought

Throughout the past few months, the Lord has been bringing various thoughts, verses, and songs to my mind that have comforted and convicted me, so I thought I would share some of them with you.

Here are a few samples from my journal:

Where does my security lie? In my love for God, or in His love for me?

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I wonder if the reason that some people do not believe in the security of salvation is because they do not believe that God created the world. 

If they do not trust in God's ability to create the world and then sustain it, why would they trust in the Spirit's ability to initiate a relationship and sustain that?

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This is my purpose in life:

"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession, so that you may proclaim the excellencies of Him who has called you out of darkness into His marvelous light." (1 Peter 2:9)
I also love how that verse says that we are God's possession -- God does not NEED us, but He chose us anyway. I love that about Him! For my part, I want to find my worth + identity in being His chosen possession!

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"From the end of the earth I call to

   You when my heart is faint;
Lead me to the rock that is higher
   than I...
Let me take refuge in the shelter of
   Your wings."
-Psalm 61:2,4
..............
O safe to the Rock that is higher than I, 
My soul in its conflicts and sorrows would fly;
So sinful, so weary -- Thine, Thine would I be;
Thou blest Rock of Ages, I'm hiding in Thee.

In the calm of the noontide, in sorrow's lone hour,

In times when temptation casts o'er me it's power;
In the tempest of life, on its wide, heaving sea,
Thou blest Rock of Ages, I'm hiding in Thee. 

How oft in the conflict, when pressed by the foe,

I have fled to my Refuge and breathed out my woe;
How often, when trials like sea billows roll,
Have I hidden in Thee, O Thou Rock of my soul.
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Be still my soul: the wind and waves still know
His voice who ruled them while He dwelt below.

Friday, February 24, 2017

Contentment + Yearning

As believers living in a sinful world, we must learn two things: proper contentment and proper yearning. These two ideas—contentment and yearning—seem to disagree with each other. How can one be content with his lot in life while he is yearning for something more? Yet this is what we must do!

Our yearning must be for God alone. Jesus longed to be reunited with His Father, for the earth was not His home. What is my desire? Do I yearn to enter the presence of my Savior? Are my thoughts centered around the eternity that I will spend with the Father? One day I will enter His presence and see the glory of the Godhead—but until then, what shall I do? Shall I while away the remaining hours by gazing out my window and wondering why God is taking so long to call me into His presence? Absolutely not! 

That is where contentment comes in. Jesus prayed, “I do not ask You to take them out of the world, but to keep them from the evil one” (John 17:15). No, the world is not my home! But it is where God has placed me for the time being so that I can bring honor and glory to Him. I must be content to live the life of holiness He has called me to until He chooses to take me to my eternal home. So then, I must learn to yearn for God’s presence, but to find contentment in knowing and serving God in this world.

Thursday, February 23, 2017

What is it to You?

After Jesus had risen from the grave, He appeared to Peter, John, and five other disciples at the Sea of Galilee, and there He had a very important conversation with Peter. Jesus asked Peter three times if he loved Him, and Peter said yes. Jesus explained that Peter's willingness to love and follow Him would eventually cost him his life, and then He said two words that can make even the most courageous person tremble: "Follow Me." Peter looked over at John, another disciple, and asked Jesus, "What about him?"

Jesus' response was simple: "If I want him [John] to remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow Me!" (John 21:22, emphasis mine).

Those eight words -- "What is that to you? You follow Me" -- have been ringing in my ears and echoing in my heart ever since I read them a week ago. Is there a believer in the world who does not need this message? We are so easily distracted by the people around us. We compare ourselves, we judge others in self-righteousness, we puff ourselves up -- and yet, what is all that to us? 


Those eight words -- "What is that to you? You follow Me" -- sum up the cost of discipleship. Like Jesus, we are to keep our eyes on the joy set before us. We are to love others as He loved. We are to be servants, even if our obedience costs us our lives. It is a difficult task, to be sure, but our Savior, our Redeemer, our Creator has already won the victory over sin and death! We can go forward with the knowledge that He will supply us with the grace we need to complete the tasks He has set out for us. 

Throughout the past week, I have heard the still, small voice speaking John 21:22 to my heart. When my feathers get ruffled at a rude, thoughtless remark--
"Never mind that. What is it to you?"

When I am tempted to stumble at the actions of another believer--
"Never mind that. What is it to you?"

When I experience hurt at the hands of a friend or foe--
"Never mind that. What is it to you?"

When I am afraid or flustered about a future event--
"Never mind that. What is it to you?"

When voices grate on me and actions irritate me--
"Never mind that. What is it to you?" 

When I experience trials or undergo bouts of "spiritual dryness"--
"What is it to you?"

Before all else, I must concern myself with this alone: "YOU follow Me."